In or Out: Jessica Alba in Valentino

Posted on September 14, 2012

Darlings, real quick:


Jessica Alba attends Self Magazine’s ‘Women Doing Good Awards’ in New York City in Valentino.

Is this chic in a Patsy Stone kind of way or is it just too much going on and making her look older than she is? Also, what the hell does “SELF WOMEN DOING GOOD” mean? It sounds a little dirty.

Vote Now!


IN! Patsy Stone!


OUT! Edina Monsoon!

The Precious Unborn Fawns were fairly united in deciding that, if this was 1975 and she was selling Avon, Amy Adams’ dress would be fine, but since it’s not and she isn’t, she’s OUT.


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    • Geoff Dankert

      OUT. I just can’t with it.

    • aeg66

      Out. The skirt looks like a damn Vera Bradley pattern (scary chills) with sequins.

    • Lisa Kramp

      Out. Too busy. And God help us all, WHY are bow blouses back????

      • Vickiefantastico

        I have no idea. Some fashions need to go away permanently. And, OUT.

    • schadenfreudelicious

      it’s far too “ladies who lunch” , she’s too young to dress that matronly….OUT till she hits 50 plus then it’s an in….

      • kschwarting

        Matronly is exactly the word I would have used for it.

      • mom2ab

        I am 50+ and its too old for me…OUT

        • Judih1

          DITTO! I’m 55 and it is too old for me… O.U.T. (and its ugly,don’t care if it is Valentino

      • snarkmeister

        She looks like a bedazzled librarian to me.

    • kimmeister

      In.  Yes, it’s fussy but somehow she’s pulling it off.

    • NicholasGirling

      I feel like she has been much improved lately but there is too much going on. OUT.

    • Trisha26

      Out. The close-ups look much better – but I’m not looking at the dress then, just her pretty face. 

    • teensmom99

      Can I say OUT, Patsy Stone?  As noted, too ladies who lunch for someone her age.

    • joe_tey83


      Can do without the bow.

    • Marguerite

      Out. Too much going on and wth is the bow and collar??  Looks like a Christmas decoration.  If she had gone with a simple black tank/cami on top, would be pretty. Love the skirt with the shoes & purse. But the shirt, with the bow? I just can’t even…  

    • AimeeWrites

      In.  I don’t feel like I SHOULD like it, but I kind of do.

    • jw_ny


      There’s a lot/too much going on with the prints, stripes, sheers, big ass bow… my eyes don’t know where to focus…can’t focus.

      That hair is…just…odd, but her makeup is very pretty.

    • MissMariRose

      IN. I hate collar bows but somehow, she is pulling this off. 

    • Call me Bee

      It certainly makes her look older than she is.  It’s a kinda cool dress though…for a Midwestern business woman such as myself.   Which automatically makes it an OUT. 

    • nannypoo

      Are you kidding me? It’s horrible. And have these sleeves with the puffy cap made an unfortunate comeback? God help us.

    • MintaHallWriter

      you know, when I first looked at this, I hated it, but the longer I looked, the MORE I liked it. So…IN

    • Corazon Nunez

      Aaalmost pulling it off. I’m nice, I’ll give her an IN.

    • Rand Ortega

      Too matronly. Lee Radziwill or Barbara Walters would totally rock that look. OUT.

    • Anna Tree

      Love Valentino in general but that look is way too old for Jalba. OUT

    • Delysia LaFosse

      OUT. Aging and unflattering. As much as I don’t like her, she does usually dress pretty well, but not this time.

    • Zippypie

      OUT!  It looks like some of the horrid sheer 70’s dresses I’ve been seeing on eBay go for $1. *shudder*

    • Sara__B

      In. Bow, surfeit of stripes, and all. But don’t try this at home, bitter kittens!

    • MariaM

      In.  She looks beautiful and sophisticated.

    • janetjb

      I wish she had only worn one piece, either the blouse or the skirt.


    • Catherine L Kronenwetter

      There is something about those stripes (and her arms down at her sides) that makes her look like she’s tied up and ready to be thrown on a train track.  Stylishly of course

    • unbornfawn

      OUT. Too much going on.

    • Lily

      Out. The bow was the nail in the coffin.

    • Deedles

      “Workin’ 9 to 5, what a way to make a livin’…”

      • Alisa Rivera

        Yes! Which makes it an in for me.

    • tallgirl1204

      Helen Mirren’s dress. 

    • Pamela

      It’s definitely Patsy but also makes her look older.

    • natalia osiatynska

      Out. It’s full-on office Christmas party. But since it has something of mourning garb about it, in addition to something of the holiday season, maybe it’s office-Christmas-party-soon-after-the-death-of-the-CFO’s-wife?

    • CPK1

      In. LOVE IT!!!!!!!!!

    • CQAussie

      These are 2 separate pieces that probably look great paired with something else but together?  Terrible.  Also: I can’t stop staring at the big bow around her neck now.  Cute shoes though.

    • Jessica TallGirl Freeman

      The pussy bow just killed it for me. OUT.

    • lesmaha


    • MajorBedhead

      OUT. She looks like a secretary circa 1985. A secretary that just rolled out of bed. 

    • Valdri8

      Out – patsy would never

      The dirty version would be “women doing self good”

      • Shawn EH

         I weep for modern grammar, I really do.

    • Kirsten Henry


    • marlie

      OUT. It’s not all that flattering, and it’s VERY aging. 

    • LesYeuxHiboux

      IN. It’s ladies who lunch, but all the boho pattern and texture keeps it from going too matronly. Skating the fine line between coverage and frump with aplomb.  

    • Pants_are_a_must

      What I’m not loving is the fit, not the patterns. She pulls off the patterns. Giving her an IN for that.

    • Kim_W60


    • MilaXX

      I’m assuming it’s a SELF magazine promo  to support women in one of those nominate the woman in your life who you think has done good type of thing.  I like her look and I think it’s appropriate for the occasion. IN

    • Jangle57

      It looks too too, I don’t know, schoolteacherish?  Office workerish?  Not that many schoolteachers or office workers wear Valentino.  Sort of like Melanie Griffith in Working Girl.  Jessica, you can do so much better.  OUT

    • kcarb1025


      The sleeves are the worst part of it.

    • sleepycat

      hate it OUT!

    • sarah.

      i like it but i don’t think it’s the dress for her? but yeah i’ll give her an IN anyway

    • understateddiva

      Hm, the bow is a little ridiculous, but like the ladylike vibe works for me.  The fact that she has the most effortlessly relaxed smile EVER helps a lot.  IN.

    • Dorrene BrownButterfield

      It would look quite awesome on Patsy Stone, but on Jessica Alba..not so much.

    • lizajane1776

      In! Complex, stylish (even though I hate “pussy bows”). She looks great!

    • ojosazules

      It’s very proper and ladylike, and a little mature, but it really seems like she means it, like that is the look she is going for. I don’t love it, but she seems happy, so In.

    • bailey debruynkops


    • trisker

      Out.  Just way too much going on for this pretty pretty girl.

    • luciaphile

      I have fairly conservative tastes in fashion, but this looks fussy and matronly to me. The length, waist, shoulders, and bow are all extremely unflattering on her. It’s not a good print. Out.

    • TSkot

      Sure it’s a little ladies-who-lunch, but it’s also Jessica Fucking Alba!  Look at that face!  IN

      • Shawn EH

         Her face looks great, true. Girl has always known how to smile!

    • Jill Tracy

      It’s very late 70s to me……in sort of?

    • quiltrx

      OUT.  It’s just too much foofaraw in one look.

    • Amy Wilson

      IN!! I love it but the comments now have me wondering if something is wrong with me.

    • Sara Munoz Munoz

      I literally cringed. OUT.

    • Lauren Lynch Fox

      Out! you can look 60 when your 60.

    • j_anson

      Mildly out. Too busy. And I’m guessing it should be read as “SELF: Women doing good.”

    • TieDye64

      So OUT. So very Patsy Stone. Waaaaaay too mature for her.

    • Maya

      out. wouldn’t be as awful if it didn’t have that bow…

    • CatherineRhodes

      IN. Very appropriate for the event.

    • demidaemon

      Um, no. Fussy and, since it is almost midnight, too seizure inducing at this time. OUT.

    • Ruthie O

      hey! everyone, look over there!

      *while everything is looking away*

      i like it. in. shhhhh don’t tell.

    • holdmewhileimnaked

      that dress wouldve been terrible in 1975. in fact, it wouldve even been worse.

      this dress is perfectly fine. i think she kind of likes looking less showy some of the time, now that she has a settled life which includes small minors. then again, i also like some of what edina monsoon wore. then again, i dont see this as having much to do w/ that.

    • Laura

      OUT. Like the skirt, the top looks frumpy, although in a very fancy way….

    • lrhoff

      This outfit is appropriate for the venue.  It’s much more businesslike — and it should be!  I like it.

    • DCSheehan

      Out. That witchy shoulder look is horrible. What’s that shoulder thing called anyway. Whatever it is, I’ve always hated it.

    • pookiesmom

      Ew, OUT! She looks like a politician’s wife at a holiday party in 1968. Who got dressed in the dark.

    • marilyn

      Out.  This is not Edina Monsoon, but her mother.  This is what the granny wears out to dinner for the special family occasion.

    • Samantha

      In. I kinda love it.

    • ChelseaNH

      OUT.  Too much.  I could take the skirt if the blouse were unadorned, but there’s no salvaging the blouse.  What is with all the horizontal wickety-wack across the bust lately?

      • leftcoastpickle

        I was thinking the exact same thing! Those horizontal lines are a distracting design element. Someone else who i can’t recall had the same parallel lines on their chest the other day, I think that was also a Valentino. Stop it!

    • Tadiana

      OUT.  I would like either the blouse or the skirt alone, with something simple.  Together they’re a little eye-searing, and they don’t really look like they should go together.

      Also, I wore floppy bows in the 80’s in law school.  Never again.  It tips almost any look into “out” territory.

    • alyce1213

      IN. I like this dress — it’s smart and knows what it’s doing.  Appropriate for her at this “non-sexy” event.

    • ccm800

      OUT as hell. WTH is wrong with this chick?? 

    • crash1212

      IN. Very lady like, but not boring. Even the bow doesn’t make me gag.

    • Nazzzy

      In. J’adore.

    • Bozhi

      In.  Not her best look, but better than most others manage to achieve. 

    • fashionablylate

      The waist area is problematic, but I’m still digging it – IN.

    • Irina Ryabchuk

      Out. Crafts teacher.

    • korilian

      Hard to say. The hair is awful, but I kind of really like the dress. I’m just not sure if I like it on her. I’ve always thought that Jessica Alba needs a little edge to prevent her from looking sugary sweet.

    • e m

      Top half In, Bottom half Out. A more youthful skirt is needed here. Overall OUT.

    • charlotte

      Out. I like the skirt though.

    • DaveUWSNYC

      Waist up and shoes are ok…but needed a less attention-pulling skirt. OUT.

    • Scarlet39

      It’s just too much look for her.


    • Emily Smith

      i kinda like it because reasons.  In.

    • DinaSews

      Can’t get past the bow.  OUT.  A rare misstep for her.

    • Carrieanno

      IN.  So nice to see a young actress not doing the “legs crossed, I’m so badassed and bored” pose/attitude with boobs hanging out. She’s wearing it beautifully.  Total class.

    • Gabriella M

      IN. She looks cute and it all works for me. 
      EXCEPT – Jessica Alba, you’ve had that ombre hair for years now, and it’s boring and I don’t think it has ever looked as good as you seem to think. Give up on trying to prove you can pull off Sue Storm. You can’t. Just go brown, please, it’ll look so much more refreshing. And that also goes for your big sister Rose Byrne. 

    • Erin Hines

      Out. To busy for anybody, anywhere, ever. And the shape makes her look like a potato.

      • Lisa

        That was gonna be my wording exactly – it’s just too busy.  Out.

    • Denise Alden

      IN Patsy!

    • Shawn EH

      Oh sweetie no! Frumpy, not a look that goes with Ms. Alba at all. I don’t think even removing the pussy bow and substituting a black pencil skirt would help. OUT!

    • leftcoastpickle

      Out, grandma dress. 

    • MaryAtRealityTea

      Oh dear God – OUT!  A pussy bow. Just stop right there. Brad Goreski should be ashamed of himself. 

    • Liana Brooks


    • Monica Valbuena

      IN!! She took a risk and I think she looks gorgeous. 

    • Tamara Hogan

      I think this dress ages her a good quarter century. Out.

      On second thought, I think it ages her a half century.  Still out. 

    • murt

      I like it!

    • Merneith

      OUT. That much tinsel and froofroo is the antithesis of chic.

    • blondie65

      sorry but out. want to like it but it is just too overdone or matronly or something…almost like it should be two different looks.  The top paired with skinny sexy pants or plain skirt maybe.  Not sure what could be done with the skirt…but something much much less.

    • julesj

      Forget about “Women Doing Good,” this is “young woman doing old-lady!

    • MissAnnieRN


    • turtleemily

      Out. The blouse needs to be with skinny pants. The proportions are wicked off. 

    • BigWhiteGrannyPanties

      OUT it makes her look old and also I HATE HATE HATE the top shoulder seam on that dress.  I know they did it in the 30’s but it makes me squirm with a kind of embarrassment.  I just want to snip those little poofs completely off.

    • Candigirl1968

      The blouse with a black skirt might have worked, but it’s too busy and makes her look like she’s auditioning for one of those movies where you start as a teenager and then play the same character as an old lady by wearing bad face prosthethics and a slightly askew grey wig.  OUT.

    • Jennifer Peters-Ahnberg

      Oh no. That is straight up church-lady. OUT, vile demon and flee thee back to the KMart from whence you sprang!

    • Mando Kelly

      In!! Monochromatic prints done right. That belt!

    • margaret meyers

      Out!  The sleeves and neck bow are the worst of the 70s.

    • snarkykitten

      Laura Ingalls goes through her awkward her goth stage.

    • aristida_girl

      Inn, she looks good, despite the fussiness of the dress..

    • Jillaine13

      Out.  Brad missed on this one.  Shorten it, loose the pussy bow and unbutton top button for a start.  Looks too mature for her.  

    • Ashley Wu

      OUT. makes her shapeless.

    • Iroqhard

      OUT. If she had the blouse with pants, or the skirt with a different top. But both of them together, with the earrings and hair, make her look matronly in a bad way. Patsy would never leave the house looking this matronly darlings.

    • Sarah Veenstra

      Out. The clothing makes me dizzy from looking at it, and what’s north of the neck is a bad mashup of Kourtney Kardashian & Blake Lively.

    • prettybigkitty

      I was undecided initially, too.  But looking back, it’s the pussy bow that ruins it.  A different neckline probably would have tipped the scales to IN.  But sadly, as is, it’s an OUT.

    • sleah_in_norcal

      oh jessica, what has happened to you?  you started out as a luscious, exotic, full-lipped young woman, and now you’ve turned into a lady who lunches in pasadena.   

    • Joyce VG

      IN. She looks great. Pussy bow and all. 

    • Wendi126

      1983 on acid

    • guest2visits

      If somehow this were a trim little dress, it might work. But the pretty blouse, and the pretty skirt, are too busy and too frufru
      together. The top looks very ‘stuffed’ into the skirt.  But Jessica still looks pretty.

    • littlemac8

      Is it too late to say OUT!  Dowdy sequined number??  Forget it!

    • 3boysful

      How can no one have mentioned how wrong for this dress the huge dangly earrings are?   There’s so much going on, some nice, say 6-carat, diamond studs would help take it out of “suburban mom of a certain age dresses up” territory.

    • NurseEllen

      OUT.  That is just too much STUFF for one dress.

    • jayme

      Ewww look at those legs! Someone dipped her bottom half in a giant vat of orange paint.

    • drdarke

      Is this Dress Up Like Your Grandma Week, and nobody told me? First Amy Adams, now Jessica Alba – and yes, I realize Ms. Adams found her level as a Walt Disney character and is praying for ENCHANTED II, but what’s Ms. Alba’s excuse?

    • Kelley Comfort

      Out. It’s too busy and ageing.

    • Jesse Rabbits


    • Dot

      She should ship this dress to Zooey. I must admit that I love the secretary style dress and would wear the hell out of it myself. But it just doesn’t suit Jessica Alba at all.

    • In_Stitches

      The makeup is sexy enough to really give the dress the oomph it needs.  Definite IN.  It’s calling for some purple stilettos, stat though.

    • Christiane Truelove

      What is this, “9 to 5 – Electric Bugaloo”? This is like what Lily Tomlin’s character from the original would have worn for an evening function.

    • PeaceBang

      OUT. So out. Aging, too busy, pussy bow, and it looks itchy.

    • kolokOlchik

      OUT, it makes her look like her boobs are drooping at her waist.  The hair is tragic

    • melanie0866

      OUT.  Too “what my mother wore to dinner in the ’80s” for me.

    • Sunshine16

      Out, silly bow on top of that craziness is simply too much

    • Warmheartedgirl Seattle


    • kathryn_dc

      Yoga hair extraordinaire.

    • LilyPad

      I feel like that skirt needed a simpler, more fitted top. Too much fabric, too much pattern. OUT. I think she looks really pretty though!

    • HK4Seven